Do you know that there are certain 'magic' words you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls? This may sound very hard for you to believe, but it is true that there are certain words, when used, will get your ex to call you back immediately. Doesn’t that sound cool to you if you are going through a break up? Wouldn’t you like to know the right things to say and do to get your ex back?
If you want to win your man back, then I am going to share this secret with you because this is one of the biggest questions I get asked by over 35,000 of my subscribers – the same way that you are trying to find ways to put your relationship back is the same way most of them are.
So I have devoted myself to answering this question several times each day. One of the most pressing questions that I get asked is “How do you detect the signs your ex wants you back?”
Another question is “How can I get my ex to return my phone calls and my text messages?”
However, I must warn you that in the guide, “The Magic of Making Up,” T.W. Jackson has laid out the complete strategy to do this that I cannot all cover in this one article. One thing I know is that this if you don’t use this secret strategy with the technique discussed in the Magic of Making Up, your relationship will only get worse and you will never receive a phone call from your ex.
In the Magic of Making Up guide, you will learn what you should not say to your ex and what you should say to save your relationship.
Before I give you the actual words that you should say, let me go over the message that usually NEVER work all the time and makes you feel worse all the time. There are two categories explained in the Magic of Making Up guide and that is Pleading to your ex. This is how that may sound to your ex on the phone:
“Hey, Joey, can you please, please, please return my phone call? This is my fourth time calling you and you haven’t called me back. Please, Please, call me back today. I must talk with you today. Please!”
The next category is the Emergency call that sounds something like this:
“Hey Joey, this is Carol. This is an emergency call. Please give me a call as soon as you get this message. This is URGENT, Please!”
Do you see what is wrong with these approach categories? And yet, this is what most people do. Instead, you should use the curiosity and self interest methods to your advantage.
The human mind is always curious about things and has an interest in self more than they would care to acknowledge. The big secret to get your ex back now is this and when combined will produce pure magic. Let us take a look at what you can say to your ex that will work nearly all the time.
Your friendly phone call will go like this:
“Hey, Joey, this is Carol. I really wanted to call to let you know how much I appreciated what you did for me. Call me back because I want to personally thank you for what you did.”
Do you see how the combination of curiosity and self interest works with that phone call? Believe me, Joey will not be able to oppose or reject the urge to call you back. He is going to be asking himself, “I wonder what she is talking about? I don’t remember doing anything for her to thank me for? I wonder what she appreciates about me.” This is going to make him have an ego trip because it makes him look like the good guy he probably isn’t.
Your appreciation does not have to be anything great. It can be a small token of your appreciation, but make sure it is credible. Before you call please be sure to have the strategy that T.W. Jackson lays out in his Magic of Making Up guide. If you use this technique with no strategy, then when you get that phone call back, it will only make matters worse and more difficult to fix. It is important what you do before, during and after that return phone call. This will be what determines the steps to get ex back.
Does this make sense to you? I hope it does. Make sure you have a plan and T.W. Jackson has a plan in the Magic for Making Up Guide. I am rooting for you.
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